After a breakup, is there any hope of discovering how to get a ex girlfriend back?
Did you cheat on her?
Did you not pay her enough attention?
Did you have different interests?
1) She is not the only option for you, so don't treat her like she is.
What I mean by this is, when you look at your ex girlfriend and you feel like she is the only possible woman for you... you are going to put undue pressure on yourself. Think about it like this: There are MANY women out there who could be just right for you. It just so happens that you feel like your ex girlfriend is ONE of those women.
That does not mean that she is the only one. When you see it this way, it seems less like you have to get her back and more like you just WANT to. That's a big difference that will help you take a lot of undue pressure off of yourself.
2) Most men who get back their ex girlfriend do so because they stop acting desperate.
We all know the cliches about women not liking desperate guys. So, why do so many guys act this way when they want their ex girlfriend back?
Truth is, most men who ARE successful at getting back with their ex girlfriend do not act desperate around her. They do not act as if they will get down on their knees to win her back. Instead, they act in a way that makes their ex girlfriend feel attracted to them, so that she remains open to the thought of giving them another chance.
3) You MUST be willing to sacrifice a little to get a lot.
One of the biggest potential blocks that you will have in getting back your ex girlfriend is the fact that you need to make some sacrifices to win her back.
Some guys are not willing to do this, even if it means that they could have a relationship again with the woman that they love. You have to decide which is more important? Your pride or getting back with your ex girlfriend.